On week two we began with the outline for the study and identified the aim. You were asked to take the lesson assigned and quickly read over it and make an outline as to the details of the lesson that would be covered. Plus identify the aim of the study. The purpose of outlining a book you are leading is to get an overview of what is being covered so that when a student asks a question you know if it will be covered in a later lesson. That way, the Scriptures are studied later on and the student will discover the answer to their question instead of you telling them – they will remember it better.
NISS Experiencing the Miracles of Jesus
Aim: Who acknowledges Jesus as the Son of God
Outline of chapter
D1/2 Key words, marking time and 5 W and H
D3/4 Make list from what marked, note what happened with time references
D5 Divide the events and label; Main characters; What do you learn about God; Cross references – learn about John the Baptist and Jesus’ relationship
Day 6 Jesus’ teaching; How people respond; Jesus’ acts; Who recognizes Jesus as Son of God
D7 Questions; Thought for week
We discussed the lesson studied and comments were made on why I led the lesson the way I did. Material passed out on how to have effective discussions and Scripture memory. Both of these papers compiled from different sources and personal experiences.
How to Make the Bible Study Discussions Effective
Learning
- Maximum learning is always the result of maximum involvement
- Practice makes perfect > permanent
- Evaluate whether experience will be the best teacher > people don’t have to do drugs to understand the result, but someone in charge of an event will learn what works and what doesn’t. Therefore we learn by doing.
- The higher your involvement, the higher you learn
- Get people involved in the process
- What kinds of activity are meaningful? Give assignments with some freedom. Ex: take this passage and come up with a principle
- You can’t pour in education, it must be drawn out of the person
- Don’t give all the answers, think of what you want your students to understand
- Provide direction not dictatorship; let a student come to light that their thinking was wrong.
- Evaluate how well a student uses the material. We don’t want storage tank education.
- Ask yourself, “What is the purpose of this assignment?”
- The amount of work doesn’t make it higher learning
- Your goal, “what do I want them to know, think, and feel?”
- Give them a product and a process then build into their life and then go beyond where they are. They need to know what and why they believe.
- Give them activity that is realistic and lifelike
- Activity that involves problem solving. Don’t bring my problems into the class for the students to solve.
- Where is the student? What is she struggling with? What temptation?
- After Jesus fed the 5,000 and the feeding of 4,000 – the crowd hadn’t learned. Teaching is a process. It is like layers of an onion you have to strip bit by bit
- When Peter walked on water to Jesus and then sank: I could ask – “Did Jesus carry him back to the boat?” OR I could say “Well Jesus took Peter’s hand – what do you think?” That’s learning
- Instead of giving a product go to a process and teach how so it grows
- Study the life of Jesus: How did He teach? Did He cram a lot of heads full of theological facts or did He involve them in a process?
Notes from Howard Hendrix Leadership video 3-6-94
Effective Discussions
- Sit in a circle. The best seating arrangement is a circle because each person has eye contact with most of the people sitting in the group. This creates an informal and warm atmosphere in which the leader becomes more of a peer since she has not placed herself in a dominant physical location.
- In leading a PUP, you will find the leader standing up and students at tables. I usually sit when my group is 2-3 or I sit because of the material being covered. Creating a warm atmosphere is still needed and can be done by music, centerpieces, refreshments and your smile and your being personable.
- Don’t dominate. To be a facilitator and a participant in a group, you should not talk more than others in a group, but give direction and ask questions to bring group to aim of lesson. In humility, share your insights and your answers to questions that stood out to you. You do not want group looking to you as “the expert”!
- Don’t be the authority. Avoid becoming the authority figure in the group. When questions are directed to you, direct questions back to the group with, “That’s a good question, any thoughts on how we could answer this with what we have studied this week?” If the question is not in line with what was studied or what will be studied, then ask someone to write it down for further study later. If the question has value to be answered quickly, then see if someone will volunteer to study and get back to the group with an answer the following week. Reason for handling this way, you will not always be in students lives, they need to know how to find answers in Scripture for difficult questions on their own – guide them in this process.
- Leading a PUP will create an air of you knowing great mountains of knowledge. Don’t sustain this.
- There are times when I use the authority of being the leader of the group. When in discussion of the Scripture, there are times when a student is adamant about a way to interpret Scripture that I would like the rest of the group to not adopt. I have said “I don’t know that I agree with that” or “Let’s look at what the text says” or “Can we see all that you have said here”
- Work together. A teaching responsibility is not your role, nor is the student’s role to sit, listen and take notes. Your responsibility is to make you and your group a working vessel – working together to find answers and to clarify issues.
- Ask the group. Your questions are usually directed to the group as a whole. (exceptions follow) While sweeping your eyes across the group, ask your question. As best you can, don’t let your eyes lock on one person.
- Deal with the talkative. The talkative is one who has something to say about everything you say or ask. Your goal is not to shut them up, but to not let them control the group conversation. In love, humility and with prayer, try to control the talkative: First, after asking a question, turn your head opposite their direction to begin your eye contact with others before your eyes contact with talkative person. Second, try adding the name of someone, who you know has their lesson done and would not mind answering your question, to the end of your question. Third, when the talkative person starts to respond, in love, humility and with a smile, say,” I know you have got the answer, does anyone else know as well?” Allow another person to respond then go back to talkative and see if they agree or want to add anything. If within a few weeks these actions do not help others get involved then you will need to get one-on-one with the person (you don’t want anyone else to hear) and say, “You have some great thoughts and are excellent in discussing the study, but I need your help. There are others in the group who need to talk more so they grow in confidence. Could you help me by letting one or two others respond before you respond? Don’t be afraid of silence in the group – people are just thinking before their thoughts come to answer. Focusing on your favorite parts of the study and sharing them will make sure you talk about what has impacted you the most. Thank you for your help in this.”
- Encourage the too quiet. Pray for discernment. Some people are quiet because their lesson is not done, others because of their temperament (they speak when what is important is not being said) and some because they have nothing to say about the question. If someone is continually quiet each week: First try giving them a little bit more eye contact. Second, ask them to participate by praying to open or close group, reading of a passage to be discussed, sharing of an experience that applies to lesson. (Choose activity carefully some people struggle with reading; others don’t like praying in a group. Always good to ask if they mind.)
- Acknowledge answers. Verbally thanking people, a nod, smile, eye contact works when people participate in answering or responding. This is very important with quiet people. Consider different responses then just a thank you: “good thinking”, “I hadn’t thought of that”, “you put a lot of thought into that”, etc. – you don’t want to be redundant with your acknowledging responses.
- Ask the group. Address your questions to the group, not to an individual. Keep your eyes sweeping trying not to lock on one person, pausing to look at your notes takes pressure off group. Remember silence is not a bad thing – they are thinking or have nothing else to add.
10. Get several answers. Simple questions require only one person to answer, but a more difficult question can have several people responding. Allowing several people to answer a question encourages participation. It also reflects how your group is handling Scripture. One person who is not grasping the context of the lesson might be corrected or helped by another person’s sharing of their answer who has handled the Scripture in context. All this can be done without the hurting of another’s feelings or with you stepping in to correct. Directing people to read what they have written down helps to remind them of their thoughts.
How to respond to God’s activity in a group
- This is learned as God teaches you. You can depend on Him for He cares for your group far more then you do.
- Place your absolute trust in God to guide you when He wants to work in your group
- To allow God to work always give your plans and agenda to God each week before group time. Ask for God to make you sensitive to the Holy Spirit.
- If God interrupts your group, pause to what is happening and/or cancel some or all of your agenda and go in His direction.
- What to look for when God is working: tears of joy or conviction, emotional or spiritual brokenness, the thrill of a new insight, or a need for prayer in response to a need. These may be seen as a facial expression instead of a verbal. Decide, in that moment, to talk to the person in the group or privately. Depend on the Holy Spirit to guide you here.
- Use questions to help the person reveal more(never push or pressure them to share more, give God time to work in person’s life): Is something happening in your life right now that you would like to share with us? How can we pray for you? Would you share with us what God is doing in your life? What can we do to be of help to you?
- If person shares, provide them with what is needed to minister to them.
- Invite group members to share in ministry to one another by praying, comforting, rejoicing, helping meet a need. If you feel you are not equipped to deal with a person’s problem or need, ask the group if one of them feels led to help. (Some needs/problems need the help of a pastor or counselor.)
- Don’t hide God’s glory from His people. Allow women to express what God is doing in their lives so that it ministers to others in the group.
- When you don’t have a clear sense of direction as to what to do next, ask the group if they have any thoughts. If time is left in the group after this diversion from what was planned, then take time to go back to the lesson at an appropriate spot or spend time praying.
- God can work in the midst of your group and guide you as to what to do. Your job is to learn to hear His voice and then do everything you sense He wants you to do (it will never be against God’s Word).
When you are with your group
- get settled and start quickly before students loose their focus and get off chasing rabbits
- Start on time and end on time
- facilitate the discussion
- focus on Biblical truth and its application to the lives of those in your group
- encourage everyone to participate
- don’t fill in time with your own talking
- ask for more then yes/no answers
- draw out more then instant Sunday school answers
- be honest and sincere with your own weak areas and struggles
- use your time wisely
- stay on track unless God interrupts you
- you may have to skip some of your plan in order to stay on track or fulfill your aim for your discussion
- don’t chase rabbit’s (write those down if need to discuss further)
- keep track of time
- Before discussion time ends make sure you have brought out application questions.
Away from your group
When you are not with your group
- Grow in the grace and knowledge of the Lord yourself
- Cultivate your devotional life
- Live out the challenges you have given yourself with the group
- pray for the individuals in your group regularly throughout the week
- keep in touch with the people in your group – work on friendship
- acknowledge or get together at church or outside of church
- attend leadership training times
- maintain confidentiality with what women share with you
Howard Hendricks said, “A person doesn’t care what you know until they know that you care. Impact is made heart to heart, not head to head. You can impress people at a distance; you can only impact them up close.”
Asking Questions
The Art of Asking Questions
- Develop thinking skills by asking questions that require students to think beyond the literal or factual level. Questions that compare, evaluate, discern – Why? What if? What is the evidence? Etc
- Allow adequate response time to questions
- Restate what student has said as an answer
- Help students think toward the right answers. If people are not responding, ask a lower-level question that offers more clues and definitive information
SCRIPTURE MEMORY
Why should we memorize Scripture?
Jesus did Matt 4:3-4 And the tempter came and said to Him, “If You are the Son of God, command that these stones become bread.” But He answered and said, “It is written, ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God.’”
Personal Purity Ps 119:9 How can a young man keep his way pure? By keeping {it} according to Thy word.
Sin will keep us from the Word or the Word will keep us from sin. Mind is like a computer – garbage in – garbage out
I Jn 2:15-16 Do not love the world, nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world.
Guidance Ps 119:105 Thy word is a lamp to my feet, and a light to my path.
Witnessing 1 Pet 3:15 but sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always {being} ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence;
Counseling Heb 3:13 But encourage one another day after day, as long as it is {still} called “Today,” lest any one of you be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin.
Bible study(cross referencing) Ezra 7:10 For Ezra had set his heart to study the law of the LORD, and to practice {it,} and to teach {His} statutes and ordinances in Israel.
Personal Joy Jer 15:16 Thy words were found and I ate them, and Thy words became for me a joy and the delight of my heart; for I have been called by Thy name, O LORD God of hosts.
Key to meditation Ps 1:1-3 How blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked, nor stand in the path of sinners, nor sit in the seat of scoffers! But his delight is in the law of the LORD, and in His law he meditates day and night. And he will be like a tree {firmly} planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in its season, and its leaf does not wither; and in whatever he does, he prospers.
Develop a greater love for God Mark 12:30 and you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength.’
Jesus had memorized the first 312 pages of the Bible before He was 12 years old.
Victory over sin Ps 119:11 Thy word I have treasured in my heart, that I may not sin against Thee.
God commands us Josh 1:8 “This book of the law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it; for then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have success.
How will I memorize? (different thoughts and techniques)
- Know content. (if not memorizing passage) Read the whole chapter verse is in. Read in different translations.
- Give the verse a title or topic. Say topic, reference, verse then reference again.
- Word perfect
- Discuss verse with God in prayer, and continue seeking His help for being successful in Scripture memory.
- When working on verse, say it out loud.
- Memorize phrase by phrase
- Emphasize different words in verse
- Be consistent to work on verses
- Choose a time when your mind is free from outside distractions. Like first thing in the morning, or before bed. Lying down is the best for memorization then sitting and standing is least effective.
- Write down the verse after you memorize. Have it handy to take with you or in a frequented place where you will see it.
- Write the verse over and over on a piece of paper getting tinier as you write it.
- Put the verse to music
- Draw a picture of it
- As you memorize, meditate on it. How does it apply to your life.
- Review, review, review – every day for 2 weeks then every week for 6 months then every month for 6 months and then yearly – this verse is owned by you for life.
We ended class with next weeks assignment.




